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What a wonderful post Saras_Stag. Love the way you are so supportive of her - even to the extent of staying with blue balls to let her sleep.
So sorry to hear about your MIL - any thoughts of finding her assissted living so Sara can visit her ?
Thank you for your honesty, just love the thread

Saras_Stag wrote: ↑

Sat Jan 25, 2025 7:17 am

Thanks everyone!!

Yesterday was me working while glancing at the phone. I knew Sara had gone into Charles’ place at 2 so by the time it was 4 and she hadn’t texted again I figured they must have connected really well. I was right!

Sara got home and due to the kids we were only able to have an impromptu make out session before dinner. We went to bed early and Sara was so turned on me nuzzling her neck got her moaning almost immediately. I knew I was her favourite at fingering her but I knew I had to step up my game, so I fingered her until she moaned for me to fuck her, which I definitely did. I was thrusting deeper than I think I ever have, by the end (which she said was the longest I’ve ever gone, and longer than any guy she’s had this month) I was bucking fucking her, you know? Grabbing her body and thrusting so fucking deeply until I came in her. Charles had used a condom so she needed that

Then I kissed my way down and started eating Sara out. She was so turned on she basically started coming and her entire pussy was throbbing. I’ve never been as good as I was last night. I wanted to be the best. The competition aspect is one I didn’t realize would be a huge turn on and motivator. I know I won’t always be the best at any one thing, but I aim to be the best *lover* and all-around performer, lol.

Sara fell into a peaceful daze as I held her until she fell asleep. The love of my life.

Thank you my love. Love you

Sara_MTL wrote: ↑

Fri Jan 31, 2025 3:30 pm

Saras_Stag wrote: ↑

Sat Jan 25, 2025 7:17 am

Thanks everyone!!

Yesterday was me working while glancing at the phone. I knew Sara had gone into Charles’ place at 2 so by the time it was 4 and she hadn’t texted again I figured they must have connected really well. I was right!

Sara got home and due to the kids we were only able to have an impromptu make out session before dinner. We went to bed early and Sara was so turned on me nuzzling her neck got her moaning almost immediately. I knew I was her favourite at fingering her but I knew I had to step up my game, so I fingered her until she moaned for me to fuck her, which I definitely did. I was thrusting deeper than I think I ever have, by the end (which she said was the longest I’ve ever gone, and longer than any guy she’s had this month) I was bucking fucking her, you know? Grabbing her body and thrusting so fucking deeply until I came in her. Charles had used a condom so she needed that

Then I kissed my way down and started eating Sara out. She was so turned on she basically started coming and her entire pussy was throbbing. I’ve never been as good as I was last night. I wanted to be the best. The competition aspect is one I didn’t realize would be a huge turn on and motivator. I know I won’t always be the best at any one thing, but I aim to be the best *lover* and all-around performer, lol.

Sara fell into a peaceful daze as I held her until she fell asleep. The love of my life.

Thank you my love. Love you

Hey...get a room! Lol

Sara had her first date last week with Dale as you saw earlier in the thread. They had a great date and she really enjoyed playing with him in her car. He’s a student and lives with his parents so it makes it challenging to meet privately as we won’t entertain here.

She used the DayUse app to find a hotel for the day (9-5) as he is mostly available during the day. She left not long ago to go get ready to greet him in one of her sexiest lingerie ensembles. Should be an enjoyable adventure for her!!

i have a good feeling this will be lots of fun

I just wrote about my date with Dale in the hotties forum. I also posted a pic of what I wore to welcome him to the room.

Just a quick update from me that the last few days have been a TON of fun. Sara's appetite seems to be even greater and she's learning new things to try out with me in our own bed which has been incredible. We've just ordered an introductory set of jeweled butt plugs for instance, which is incredible considering how Sara used to be totally disinterested in anything in that area.

And the sex... some mindblowing sex the last few days. I know, I know, I've said that before but it really does feel like another level. I was just saying this morning how "natural" sex feels for us now. It's no longer this special event thing that has a lot of angst and thinking and nerves wrapped around it - it's just as natural as the kiss on the lips when we see each other.... it's so damn nice and amazing and makes me so happy. And if you head over to our pics thread in the Hotties, you'll see how complimentary she's been of my performance recently - and what guy doesn't love hearing how good he is in bed?

Seeing Sara's blossoming into a hotwife and a Queen has been incredible, and I'm very fortunate to be her partner through this journey.

You are an amazing partner to Sara. Wonderful to hear that sex between you has really reached new highs...

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Wed Feb 05, 2025 7:32 am

You are an amazing partner to Sara. Wonderful to hear that sex between you has really reached new highs...

Thanks so much. She's an amazing partner to me so it makes it easy

Thank you for sharing your amazing journey

We2r1 wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 08, 2025 7:28 pm

Thank you for sharing your amazing journey

Thank you!

A bit of a slowdown the last few days though Sara did meet Kevin yesterday. He’s a very well spoken younger man who is a really interesting character, and is also fit. He seems very respectful (important!) but also loves flowery descriptive language texting over the past several days which Sara liked.

Sara enjoyed talking with him over coffee yesterday but there was little spark initially. She even recoiled a bit when he first tried to put his hand on hers. Even though over text he was pretty open to discuss sex he refrained from doing so during their coffee, probably because of that.

They chatted more afterward last night as she was still curious about him and he didn’t turn her off yet so she planned a dinner date tomorrow night… but Kevin wasn’t into it. He feels they should be discreet especially as she wears her ring on dates and we suspect he doesn’t like drawing attention since he doesn’t have a ring. Also, he lives closer to us than anyone else so far, so they’d have to drive out a bit to get away.

So they had a call an hour ago and at this moment Sara has arrived at Kevin’s apartment, to pick him up so they can drive around and chat. And that lack of spark? After talking to him and finding out what’s what Sara is definitely intrigued… apparently he’s far looser and fun in private. So let’s see what happens tonight!

the ring is no big deal. there are men who don't wear one these days. people don't pay attention as much as we think they do.

jane wrote: ↑

Tue Feb 11, 2025 4:34 pm

the ring is no big deal. there are men who don't wear one these days. people don't pay attention as much as we think they do.

True enough. I just had to get my wedding ring resized down and during the week it was gone no one noticed, or at least no one mentioned it, even my kids!

Saras_Stag wrote: ↑

Tue Feb 11, 2025 4:09 pm

We2r1 wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 08, 2025 7:28 pm

Thank you for sharing your amazing journey

Thank you!

A bit of a slowdown the last few days though Sara did meet Kevin yesterday. He’s a very well spoken younger man who is a really interesting character, and is also fit. He seems very respectful (important!) but also loves flowery descriptive language texting over the past several days which Sara liked.

Sara enjoyed talking with him over coffee yesterday but there was little spark initially. She even recoiled a bit when he first tried to put his hand on hers. Even though over text he was pretty open to discuss sex he refrained from doing so during their coffee, probably because of that.

They chatted more afterward last night as she was still curious about him and he didn’t turn her off yet so she planned a dinner date tomorrow night… but Kevin wasn’t into it. He feels they should be discreet especially as she wears her ring on dates and we suspect he doesn’t like drawing attention since he doesn’t have a ring. Also, he lives closer to us than anyone else so far, so they’d have to drive out a bit to get away.

So they had a call an hour ago and at this moment Sara has arrived at Kevin’s apartment, to pick him up so they can drive around and chat. And that lack of spark? After talking to him and finding out what’s what Sara is definitely intrigued… apparently he’s far looser and fun in private. So let’s see what happens tonight!

This guy Kevin is worried about non issues it seems! What's his problem if he is seen dating a married woman from the locality?
One would understand if the lady concerned (Sara in this case) had these concerns.
But what's bothering Kevin?

sandy691196 wrote: ↑

Tue Feb 11, 2025 5:27 pm

Saras_Stag wrote: ↑

Tue Feb 11, 2025 4:09 pm

We2r1 wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 08, 2025 7:28 pm

Thank you for sharing your amazing journey

Thank you!

A bit of a slowdown the last few days though Sara did meet Kevin yesterday. He’s a very well spoken younger man who is a really interesting character, and is also fit. He seems very respectful (important!) but also loves flowery descriptive language texting over the past several days which Sara liked.

Sara enjoyed talking with him over coffee yesterday but there was little spark initially. She even recoiled a bit when he first tried to put his hand on hers. Even though over text he was pretty open to discuss sex he refrained from doing so during their coffee, probably because of that.

They chatted more afterward last night as she was still curious about him and he didn’t turn her off yet so she planned a dinner date tomorrow night… but Kevin wasn’t into it. He feels they should be discreet especially as she wears her ring on dates and we suspect he doesn’t like drawing attention since he doesn’t have a ring. Also, he lives closer to us than anyone else so far, so they’d have to drive out a bit to get away.

So they had a call an hour ago and at this moment Sara has arrived at Kevin’s apartment, to pick him up so they can drive around and chat. And that lack of spark? After talking to him and finding out what’s what Sara is definitely intrigued… apparently he’s far looser and fun in private. So let’s see what happens tonight!

This guy Kevin is worried about non issues it seems! What's his problem if he is seen dating a married woman from the locality?
One would understand if the lady concerned (Sara in this case) had these concerns.
But what's bothering Kevin?

Kevin may be attached and might not want to risk being seen in public. A coffee meeting could be explained, a dinner date... maybe not quite so easily. The ring comment may be a red herring.

My hot cutie with a booty often chats with guys who are more than keen to meet her in private, but often find various excuses for not being able to meet publicly ("I don't drink", "I'm vegan", "I don't go out much", "I don't like crowds", etc.). Suffice to say that she moves on... no / low effort = no shot at her.

PlzFuckMyHotwife wrote: ↑

Tue Feb 11, 2025 8:38 pm

sandy691196 wrote: ↑

Tue Feb 11, 2025 5:27 pm

Saras_Stag wrote: ↑

Tue Feb 11, 2025 4:09 pm

We2r1 wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 08, 2025 7:28 pm

Thank you for sharing your amazing journey

Thank you!

A bit of a slowdown the last few days though Sara did meet Kevin yesterday. He’s a very well spoken younger man who is a really interesting character, and is also fit. He seems very respectful (important!) but also loves flowery descriptive language texting over the past several days which Sara liked.

Sara enjoyed talking with him over coffee yesterday but there was little spark initially. She even recoiled a bit when he first tried to put his hand on hers. Even though over text he was pretty open to discuss sex he refrained from doing so during their coffee, probably because of that.

They chatted more afterward last night as she was still curious about him and he didn’t turn her off yet so she planned a dinner date tomorrow night… but Kevin wasn’t into it. He feels they should be discreet especially as she wears her ring on dates and we suspect he doesn’t like drawing attention since he doesn’t have a ring. Also, he lives closer to us than anyone else so far, so they’d have to drive out a bit to get away.

So they had a call an hour ago and at this moment Sara has arrived at Kevin’s apartment, to pick him up so they can drive around and chat. And that lack of spark? After talking to him and finding out what’s what Sara is definitely intrigued… apparently he’s far looser and fun in private. So let’s see what happens tonight!

This guy Kevin is worried about non issues it seems! What's his problem if he is seen dating a married woman from the locality?
One would understand if the lady concerned (Sara in this case) had these concerns.
But what's bothering Kevin?

Kevin may be attached and might not want to risk being seen in public. A coffee meeting could be explained, a dinner date... maybe not quite so easily. The ring comment may be a red herring.

My hot cutie with a booty often chats with guys who are more than keen to meet her in private, but often find various excuses for not being able to meet publicly ("I don't drink", "I'm vegan", "I don't go out much", "I don't like crowds", etc.). Suffice to say that she moves on... no / low effort = no shot at her.

You are most probably right. Kevin is not squaring up on his relationship status. And guys who play these silly games and spring these nonsensical alibis, don't deserve your wife! Thats why I am such a big fan of organic play (bars/ parties) and swingers' meets.

Any updates on Kevin? Was the date a success or was the chemistry just not there?

As for him not wanting to meet for dinner, I can sort of see his concerns. At the same time, if a "date" is part of what Sara wants out of the exchange then she shouldn't settle for less. I enjoy a little romance with my sexcapades

Hi all,
I or hubby will write about what happened last night. I’m just having problems getting all my thoughts down. In all, we did fuck, but it was not as good as I hoped it would have been. More details to come.

I meet up with Kevin. A young 29 year old, who told me he has a high libido. All the events that lead up to us fucking happened rather quickly. More so, than the other encounters I have had. I started chatting on Saturday online. He was very very charming and smart. His words were like he was trying to woo me into his bed. 

We chatted some more on Sunday and he was again sweet and attentive that we arranged to meet up for coffee on the following day. 

We meet up the following day at the mall and grabbed a coffee. Our conversation in person was just as interesting as the one online. He was extremely intelligent, but I found that I did not have that spark (physical attraction to him). He tried to touch my hand and i recoiled from his touch without even thinking of it. 

The same night we talked he seemed a bit upset when I didn’t want to sext with him, but I didn’t think much of it. His texts after that seemed to be less charming and only to the point. 

The following day, I knew something was up, so we spoke on the phone and he mentioned that he wanted a discreet relationship and referred to when we had a coffee and mentioned me wearing a wedding ring and how it could bring attention to us. I found this odd and wanted to talk more. 

I decided to meet up in person. Worst decision I made. I wanted to give him a chance because I’m a sapiosexual as well. Intelligence is super sexy to me as well, even though I didn’t have a physical spark with him. 

Anyway, we ended up at his place at around 8PM. I told him that the misunderstanding we can leave behind us and just move forward. 

So, we started to talk about all kinds of things and I found myself really enjoying our stimulating conversations. We talked for over 2 hours, when he asked if we should take off some of our clothes. I giggled and said, here is my sock..it’s off.. this got the ball rolling. 

He took off his clothes and undressed me. He kissed me and he was an ok kisser. Not the best, but not the worst. I first ended up naked straddling him and started to kiss his neck. His cock wasn’t as hard as I thought it would be from this action. (After reflecting on our night, I have come to the conclusion that Kevin was overthinking everything). 

He suggested we go to the bed, which we did. On the bed, we tried different postions. He wanted to try doggie style, but he wanted to do it standing up and me leaning on the bed.  He said it was because he was taller than me (he’s 6’1; I’m 5’6). I though this was weird, but I said ok. He tried to get it in, but it didn’t work. Or rather he kept slipping out because he wasn’t completely hard. He then said let’s try fucking in the kitchen. He wanted to lean over the kitchen counter. I thought this was hilarious, but I was like, sure why not. This position  didn’t work either LOL.

So, we went back to the bedroom, and I started to ride him, but his cock wasn’t hard. I then started to give him a bj, while he fingered fucked me. It was fun and we were just talking, while we were in this position. He then tried to fuck me again, but the same thing happened. His cock wasn’t hard enough. At this point, I could see that he was overthinking everything. 

He asked me to touch myself and I said I was shy, but he said come on. He started to masturbate and I was watching him. I leaned in and whispered in his ear that he was so sexy the way he breaths. He said, I want to fuck you. He turned me over and started fucking me missionary positon. All was great, until he shifted too many times and he lost his erection. 

He got off of me and stood up, while I started to masturbate again, which he then decided to face fuck me. Yup. I never did this before and after a few minutes my claustrophobia came crashing over me. I told him, get off of me. He did. I told him I was ok, but I wouldn’t be able to do that position. He understood. During our time together, I was able to cum a few times. He never did. 
 
Anyway, we talked a little more. I got dressed and left a little past midnight. He was sweet and walked me to my car and asked me to text him when I got home. I told him to confirm if we were still going to dinner Wednesday night. He said that he’ll let me know by the morning. He double kissed my checks and said goodbye. 

I got in the car and called hubby and told him about our experience. When I got home, hubby reclaimed me and it was so nice to be in his arms and being with someone I know how to turn on. Hubby finger fucked me than fucked me good and hard. It was so explosive when he came inside me. I feel asleep so well.  

Kevin did not text me the morning to confirm our meeting up for dinner or even respond to me getting home safely (which was fine because he probably fell asleep). After 1PM, I cancelled our dinner reservations and texted him that I guess I am being ghosted. The second I wrote that, he responded and asked if I was upset. I told him no, I’m fine. And that was the last time I heard from him. Completely different from the charming sweet guy from Saturday to now, where I haven’t heard from him at all. 

Anyways, there is so much details in our meeting that I can write, but then it would be a long essay. After speaking to hubby, I have come to the conclusion that Kevin wants an on-call fuck person and that’s it. This would be fine, if he could fuck well. His cock never got completely hard (maybe that’s my interpretation) and the questions he asked me got me to thinking that he lacks experience, even though he wanted to take charge. Like, how many partners have I had and how many partners do I want.

Hubby thinks that those questions might have been him trying to figure out my level of experience and not wanting me to compare his performance with others. 

In all, I don’t mind he hasn’t reached out because I really don’t want to have a do-over with Kevin.

So proud of you for sharing a less than great experience my love. Sara really had a hard time with this one because she was, as she put it, embarrassed. I told her she had nothing to be embarrassed about - it just shows how much she loves connecting with people and how optimistic she is (at least when it comes to others - she's nothing if not pessimistic about herself unfortunately). This whole Kevin episode will definitely serve as a reminder that if it doesn't seem to be flowing, it probably shouldn't. I'm also surprised at how half-assed so many guys seem to get after the first date.

Sara has said she doesn't feel like a Hotwife sometimes when things like this happen - especially when the guys fail to perform. I've told her she's an amazing Hotwife (she started just after Christmas and has already been with FIVE guys!) and she has zero to worry about - she's just gotten unlucky a couple of times and those examples will help her identify what to look for to avoid.

And sure enough, she already has another coffee date tonight with a new candidate. This guy is very sweet and kind so far in his texts (of course, let's see if that continues) and wanted a chill coffee just to talk before they do anything else. He's also incredibly well built. I mean, my jaw dropped when I saw the pic he sent her of his shirtless physique. Like a damn sculpture. And he's closer than anyone else - FEELD shows him from 1-3km away, so definitely same area. See what I mean? The HOTTEST wife, imo.

half way through reading i felt bad for him, he seem flustered about the whole thing so he couldn't get hard, but then he ghosted you. how juvenile.

So sorry to hear that things didn’t workout with Kevin. I was kinda rooting for him earlier but he seems very juvenile so you are better off without him.
Happy Valentine day and enjoy it with someone you love Sara

Saras_Stag wrote: ↑

Thu Feb 13, 2025 10:31 am

So proud of you for sharing a less than great experience my love. Sara really had a hard time with this one because she was, as she put it, embarrassed. I told her she had nothing to be embarrassed about - it just shows how much she loves connecting with people and how optimistic she is (at least when it comes to others - she's nothing if not pessimistic about herself unfortunately). This whole Kevin episode will definitely serve as a reminder that if it doesn't seem to be flowing, it probably shouldn't. I'm also surprised at how half-assed so many guys seem to get after the first date.

Sara has said she doesn't feel like a Hotwife sometimes when things like this happen - especially when the guys fail to perform. I've told her she's an amazing Hotwife (she started just after Christmas and has already been with FIVE guys!) and she has zero to worry about - she's just gotten unlucky a couple of times and those examples will help her identify what to look for to avoid.

And sure enough, she already has another coffee date tonight with a new candidate. This guy is very sweet and kind so far in his texts (of course, let's see if that continues) and wanted a chill coffee just to talk before they do anything else. He's also incredibly well built. I mean, my jaw dropped when I saw the pic he sent her of his shirtless physique. Like a damn sculpture. And he's closer than anyone else - FEELD shows him from 1-3km away, so definitely same area. See what I mean? The HOTTEST wife, imo.

Thank you my love. You are so sweet

jane wrote: ↑

Thu Feb 13, 2025 11:25 am

half way through reading i felt bad for him, he seem flustered about the whole thing so he couldn't get hard, but then he ghosted you. how juvenile.

100% Jane. I completely agree. And thank you **hugs

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Thu Feb 13, 2025 11:41 am

So sorry to hear that things didn’t workout with Kevin. I was kinda rooting for him earlier but he seems very juvenile so you are better off without him.
Happy Valentine day and enjoy it with someone you love Sara

Thank you so much. And happy Valentine’s Day to you as well.